6 Keys to Discovering Real Happiness


Real happiness is such a stage where you can find yourself as a separate entity from all the unhappiness and miseries of life. On such stage, you could realize yourself as an entity, which is untouched by the turmoil of the spirit. It’s an entity, which is far off from emotional disturbance and situational flowing of spirit.  You could see that you are set and everything is falling in its direction. You are fixed but not imprisoned. You could find the boundless freedom to flow as a river. You will discover yourself as a fearless entity beyond all circumstances of life. When your emotions transcend, fear disappears and prison unbolts, only love remains with your identity. You can discover real happiness only when you will find yourself as an independent, free, fearless and loving entity within the creation.

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Enjoy every moment of life, just like the butterfly.

Life has no security. It’s running in its own rhythm. The only constant changes.  You cannot hold anything throughout the life except the memories. Thus, momentary happiness, pleasure, miseries all come and go with the current of animation. You can only enjoy everything when you flow your boat with its current and enjoy every moment of living. Finding the real happiness within you is the secret of enjoying the every bit of life.  To find this happiness, you have to go deep within yourself. On that point, there are certain ways to take hold of the rhythm of life and be happy in all situations.  Here are the 6 keys of discovering the real happiness.

Childhood happiness is the real happiness.

6  keys to discovering real happiness:

  1. Listen to your heart:

When life throws a challenge to you, when you think life is not working in the same direction that you predict, try to find out your internal voice. Focus on yourself. Practice meditation, if you can. People will come to you with their multiple opinions. If you live to hear those, either you will get confused or convinced by their compulsions. Try to be relaxed and listen to your heart. Later, you can understand that the voice of your heart is the ultimate guide of your liveliness. You possibly think it is illogical, but subsequently, you see its significance in your liveliness. Forget about the future, live in present and you will find real happiness when your action is triggered by your inner voice or the voice of your heart.

  1. Be truthful to yourself:

We have a tendency to impress others or to be recognized as good in the society. To do that we sacrifice a lot. We kill our inner voice, we are going against to our heart and do whatever people want . In this way, we are making us unhappy and untruthful to ourselves. You can find real happiness when you can speak what you believe and do you whatsoever want. This is truthfulness and it makes you so courageous that the concern of rejection from the society will disappear from your intellect.  You can remain happy in any turmoil and rejection of the bounciest. It’s because you are accepted by the greater Self and danced with the beat of life.

  1. Find your Passion:

Finding  your passion is another means of seeing happiness in any stress or pain. It’s a space where you can feel happy always. It’s a source of energy of energy in every exhausted condition of life. It’s because it makes a channel to deep  inside through which you can discover yourself. Passion comes to direct you towards your goal. Then, whenever you discover it, you will travel along the current of your animation and stay cool in every up and down of life. Passion is directly connected with your heart. So, performing the work of your passion automatically makes you happy.

  1. Accept the pain:

Happiness comes from pain (read this article)  When you are in pain, you are deflected from the external affairs. So, it is the high time to know yourself that is called introspection. Through the proper introspection, you can see the causes of the pain and all your limitations. You cannot improve or change other people’s  actions. You can only protect you from those unwanted actions by making yourself receptive. This is possible when you can recognize your actual individuality. This makes you so happy that the pain cannot dare to touch you. Happiness is bigger than the pain. But, you can discover this happiness after huge  suffering in pain. “The Sun always shines after the storm.” So, don’t try to escape from the pain. Accept it and use it to discover the real happiness. Otherwise, you will skip the happiness and suffer in pain again and again throughout the life.

  1. Accept and love yourself:

During the time of introspection, you may find yourself as an injured and erroneous individual.  Accept that entity. It is you. Don’t try to improve it. It’s your originality. When you accept it, you will fall in love with yourself. The flow of love for yourself will propel you to travel with the original flow of spirit. Flowing with the current of your animation makes you so happy that you can dance to the rhythm of life. Pleasures, miseries whichever come in your way, you will get over them with your own happiness.

  1. Accept others as they are:

 When you really accept yourself as you are, you could see everything in a positive outlook. You will find good in every single thing of life. This positivity helps you to nurture everything with your love and compassion.  It’s because now you are already aware of that the source of all is one and we all are full of love and compassion. The toxicity of society only covers it. Thus, we are reacting in different ways. This feeling of oneness helps you to accept other people as they are.  When you can accept people in this way , their actions cannot bring tear again in your eyes. You will just see their activities and smile in silence. This is the real happiness that brings a smile to your face even in the miserable situation of life.


Happiness is innate. It is present within yourself. The garbage of the society just makes a veil over it. Thus, you are running after it. Stop running and relax for some time. Then run inside yourself.  On that point, you will discover boundless happiness that is defined, real and unchangeable over time.

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Excellent post and very well worded. Life is pretty simple if we can declutter and find our true selves underneath it.
It all comes down to that inner voice, , the true self which is both attached to and one with all creation.

Infinite Living

I truly appreciate your post …it is very profound yet worded in a very simple, straightforward manner. The depth shows you have lived it to say it. I call this infinite way of living, continually seperating oneself from the drama and trauma of it all …to find your inner being and inner happiness.


This is a wonderful post with some excellent and practical advice we can all use to make the most of our lives. Thanks for the timely reminders of what’s truly important.


the six point list is really true Sayanti. I haven’t been able to follow every one of them, and the one I do I’m not sure that I follow them hundred percent, but this i’m sure that i’ve been happy whenever i’ve been able to follow these.

these are simple facts of life, but somehow we just see through them. Great wisdom shared..


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Great post and photos!!


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#6 is my favorite. Accepting ourselves just as we are is such a stepping stone concept. In my opinion, it’s much easier to move forward from here in achieving even greater heights. Another blessing is being enabled to also accept others as they are. Think of the possibilities!

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