#AtoZChallenge: R is For Relationships

From childhood to old age, so many relationships come and go in our lives. We have a tendency to look for a perfect relationship. Many people spend their entire lives to find the perfect one for them. And, finally, cannot come to the conclusion that which one was perfect for him or her. Now, the question is that does a perfect relationship exist?

Perfect relationships exist. Not only one, but more than one perfect connection exists also. Generally, the association, which flows smoothly and effortlessly without manipulating anything of yourself, you mark as the perfect union.  It’s not necessary that the man or the woman, with whom you live, can share everything with you or participate in any discussion with you.

The guy or the girl, with whom you enjoy sharing poetry and stories, can be the perfect one for your poetry’s relationship. The man, with whom, you love to drink, can be the best partner for you for enjoying the beverages. The girl, whose company, you enjoy most for chatting about music and songs, can be the perfect company for your musical moods. Like this way, your perfect romance partner cannot be your perfect gossip partner or your ideal shopping partner.

The perfect relationship is all about tunning. The partner, with whom, you can tune your emotions. When you do that, it goes with harmony with love and fights. It’s like a matching of web length. When your particular thoughts perfectly match with somebody’s thought, the connection between you two falls into harmony. The union goes so well that you feel comfort within that.

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The perfect relationships.

So, it does not happen that you will find one, with you can tune your all emotions or you can match all your web lengths. You will regret if you expect that. What needs to put all your expectation to a person? What needs to demand everything from one person? Life is not so short that you can close it within only one perfect union. Expand your life, wide your intellect to enjoy the wideness of living. Don’t put your thoughts in such narrow lane of finding at least one perfect relationship in your existence. Learn to give value to the smallest small relationships in this animation. You’ll definitely, find more than one perfect connections in your living.

Feel free to share your thoughts about the perfect relationships.

This post is the part of Blogging From A to Z Challenge of April 2017 on Letter- R . My theme for this Challenge is Exploring The Beauty Of Living.

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Good post Sayanti. Some relationships are imperfectly perfect! Just like a garden, a lot of care and nurturing need to be done for a relationship to blossom and become perfect!


I agree with you. All my life I was looking for a “kindred spirit” just like Anne Shirley in Anne of Green Gables. i realised that each friend has something to offer but not everything so have come to accept people on those terms. Even my husband, who is my closest friend, does not meet all the requirements of a “kindred spirit” but he is close enough. By not being that person in my imagination he has probably allowed me to grow as an individual.

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Very good!!!

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I liked this post.. the way you talked about that no one relationship is perfect in every sense, which is the key point to take away from this post and a mighty important one! And I agree with it as well. We humans aren’t perfect. A relationship of two imperfect humans can’t be perfect. We just need love, compassion, trust and communication to nurture these relationships as best as we can. Thanks for sharing!
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