#AtoZChallenge: T is For Trust
Trust is like a thread that can be torn up at any moment. All the close and intimate relationships are standing on that single thread. Trusting somebody means, you are making yourself vulnerable to any attack. But, the dilemma is that you cannot build a relationship without this thread. Trust is a kind of thread that doesn’t know to bind one. In fact, this thread is like the thread of kite, which can fly all over the sky but it is rooted in the flier’s hand.
Trust always gives freedom. You cannot hold a handful of sand in your grip if you hold it, tightly. You need to cup your hand to stop it from trickling through the finger. In the same way, when you trust somebody, he or she feels some comfort that helps him or her to flourish well. That means, he or she can express himself or herself, spontaneously, in that companionship. Trust can only give this home feeling comfort to the one whom you trust. This is the base of each intimate relationship.
On the other hand, when you have a faith on your partner, you feel a kind of relief that leads to an effortless relationship. You can enjoy the joy of an association when it is going easily without putting any hard effort. In short, an ideal company should be the place where you can relax, where you can express your emotions shamelessly, and where you don’t need to manipulate yourself. Manipulation is very hard work and tiring. Hence, the manipulated relationships or the relationships, where the people, involved in it, use masks cannot last for long or it cannot be an intimate union. Thus, distrust or doubt is so painful that neither can you hold that union nor you can stay on that union.
It takes a time to build a trust in a relationship. But, it takes a moment to break all. When the individuals maintain clarity in their every action, the thread of trust becomes harder. Gloomy relationships, where the individuals always hide something from each other, create distrust or doubt. Doubt is a kind of thing that can ruin an empire of love. So, it’s better to clear your doubts without any hesitations when it comes to your mind. It’s because a single doubt can asexually reproduce thousands of doubts and that is enough to break the thread of trust.